Your Mindset is Key
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Talk about the move leading up to it - the process and the new location.
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Focus on the positive aspects and model positivity. Kids will feed off of your mindset.
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Treat the move like an adventure.
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Be flexible, stay calm, and be prepared for the unexpected.
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Involve children when possible.
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Let kids experience their emotions and support them through them.
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Ask for help when needed and accept it when offered.
Medical & Paperwork
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Make sure all medical appointments are up to date.
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Get (hand-carry) immunization, school, medical records, and birth certificate.
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Schedule any doctor/dentist/specialist appointments at the new location. (lead time is usually a while for new patients).
Move Preparations
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Consider donating unused clothes and toys (involve kids if possible).
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Organize toys and clothes, so they get packed together.
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Put small toys in gallon ziplock bags.
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Have kids pack their own backpacks of special items to take with them.
What to Pack
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Plan to be without your HHG for longer than you think.
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Pack extra clothes (bring more than you think you need). Consider weather.
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Ensure you pack your child’s special items i.e. favorite toy, stuffed animal, etc.
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Travel with all baby essentials that you need for a few weeks.
Car Ride/ Trip Planning
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Plan and book ahead! Consider if you’re stopping for any adventures along the way.
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Make a vacation out of the trip.
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Be prepared with activities, snacks, and entertainment. Bring more than you think you need.
Move
- Maintain routines for as long as possible leading up to the move.
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If possible, have the child(ren) elsewhere when movers are at the house (babysitters, friend’s house, hotel, etc.) during packing and unpacking.
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CGMA has some funding for childcare during the move.